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Sunday, August 21, 2011

Southern by Birth. . NYC for the LOVE and "The Help" because of needed obligation.

I grew up in a town called Charleston SC. It is greatly known as being the start of the Civil War and more over these days for brilliant epicureans like Sean Brock from Husk Restaurant which just won the best new restaurant in the country from Bon Appetite Magazine.  However growing up down south, I had the pleasure of having a second mother. A woman that not only helped to raise me, but she practically for all intents and purposes did raise my mother. Before her death some years back, she had been working  for the family for over 44 years!



I will never forget the evening my buddy and I went down to 42nd to catch a movie and the preview for The Help came on. I almost immediately got teary eyed. He was like "what is the hell is wrong with you?" I said that I must absolutely see that movie. He coming from the north, really saw no relevance to the meaning of it. He even commented " what's the big deal?" I very quickly told him. . . .not not a movie, that's a reality and one that I lived!



I had taken a week out of the city to come back down and meet with some of my fabulous southern brides and decided to take my mother to the movie. It was, as expected, moving. Being that I am certainly not a movie reviewer, I won't get into how much I thought the writing was brilliant and the character work superb. I thought I would actually enlighten some about the relationships we southern boys have with our nannies.

Always let it be said, I am certainly a mama's boy. Well Miss Rosa had a lot to do with me coming up the way I did as well. She grew up on a plantation where her parents picked cotton and grandparents like in the movie were actual slaves. It is so hard for me to believe that this kind of thing happened. The simple idea of racism just turns my stomach. However, it was the mid to late 70s and she was brought in to give my mother a well deserved break. My grandmother sort of allowed her to come over to our house and watch me and allow my mother some sanity. . .as no one is probably surprised I was kind of a type A baby!

 Well little did I know from the baths she would give me to my watching from a stool with her making fried chicken, that Rosa would play such a brilliant part of who I am today. Moreover, as previously stated she all but raised my mother.

So seeing The Help, brought back a ton of really amazing memories and more over some southern recipes that I thought I would share out of the August edition of Food+Wine Magazine. Please enjoy the recipes and I am thrilled to have shared a little of my southern heritage with you. YES this is where I get some of the little bit of a southern accent I have left!

Minny's Chocolate Pie
INGREDIENTS

1 packaged pie dough crust, such as Pillsbury
1 1/2 cups sugar
3 tablespoons unsweetened cocoa powder
4 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted
2 large eggs, beaten
3/4 cup evaporated milk
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
1/4 teaspoon salt
Whipped cream, for serving

DIRECTIONS
Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Ease the pie crust into a 9-inch pie plate and crimp the edges decoratively. Prick the crust lightly with a fork. Line the crust with foil or parchment paper and fill with pie weights or dried beans. Bake for 15 minutes or until set. Remove the foil and weights and bake for about 5 minutes longer, just until the crust is dry but not browned. Meanwhile, in a bowl, whisk the sugar with the cocoa powder, butter, eggs, evaporated milk, vanilla and salt until smooth. Pour the filling into the pie shell and bake for about 45 minutes, until the filling is set around the edges but a little jiggly in the center. Cover the crust with strips of foil halfway through baking. Transfer the pie to a rack and let cool completely before cutting into wedges. Serve with whipped cream
 
SOUTHERN FRIED CHICKEN:
INGREDIENTS
One 4-pound chicken, cut into 8 pieces
2 large eggs
1/2 cup whole milk
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1 tablespoon seasoned salt, such as Lawry's
1 teaspoon seasoned pepper, such as Lawry's
24 ounces solid vegetable shortening, such as Crisco

DIRECTIONS
Pat the chicken pieces dry and line a baking sheet with wax paper. In a large bowl, whisk the eggs with the milk. Add the chicken. In another bowl, whisk the flour with the seasoned salt and seasoned pepper. Dredge the chicken in the seasoned flour and transfer to the baking sheet. In a 12-inch, cast-iron skillet, heat the vegetable shortening to 365 degrees. Add all of the chicken and fry over moderate heat, turning occasionally, until deeply golden brown and an instant-read thermometer inserted nearest the bone registers 170 degrees, 20 to 24 minutes. Drain the chicken on paper towels and serve right away.

Courtesy: Food & Wine Magazine, August 2011

Sunday, August 14, 2011

Fire Island Saturday for The Trevor Project: Ooh what a party!

As I continue making introductions in New York I have found some really brilliant charitable organizations that we will be supporting. Flash back to a couple of Wednesdays ago when I walked into a huge board room at 7:00 in the GM building. It was for new members of a charity called The Trevor Project.


Do you remember GLEE and the spots that Google Chrome ran with the celebrities talking to youth who are gay or lesbian and telling them the most honest words one can tell them: " It gets better." Here, let me  refresh your memory with this link. http://www.youtube.com/user/googlechrome?v=7skPnJOZYdA&feature=pyv&ad=7478932977&kw=%2Bit%20%2Bgets%20%2Bbetter


I remember being on the couch and tears rolling down my face after watching that ad. I also remember wanting to find a way to make a difference. The Trevor Project's mission statement is:

The Trevor Project is determined to end suicide among LGBTQ youth by providing life-saving and life-affirming resources including our nationwide, 24/7 crisis intervention lifeline, digital community and advocacy/educational programs that create a safe, supportive and positive environment for everyone.

 I immediately knew that this was a charity that I and my company would embrace. That said, I was not supposed to have been in town for their Summer fund raiser, however, as it turned out I was and I got to kill 2 birds with one stone.  I am no longer a Fire Island Virgin and I worked on a really fabulous event. Join me as I take you through this fun day and into the night!!!

the morning started about 7:30am grabbed some coffee. I headed to Penn Station to meet my friend Ben Watson to take the jaunt (I use that word loosely as it takes about 2 hours) out to Fire Island Pines. It was somewhat comforting to me to have a pal to go out there with. It seems just making sure you are on the right train is a task and a half.  It is rather convenient that they sell package deals at Penn Station. For $31.00 you can get round trip train service and ferry service to the island.

We boarded the first train and off we went. We got to the ferry about 90 minutes later. . the smell of the salt air brought me right back to Charleston SC where I am originally from and still have an office. We boarded and off to Fire Island we went.

Ben Watson and Myself.

When we got off the boat, I totally felt like I was fresh off the boat. This was my first rodeo. Imagine an island that was so accepting and this particular part of the island  all gay men of every size, demographic and age.  We walked in to grab some breakfast and it was like a veritable nightclub going on in the line to place your order for food. Gaga was on the sound system and people were bobbing their heads over coffee and their lox bagel and cream cheese. Where in the HELL was I?!!!

Well we headed to the event space and wow what a view!


As always there was a great amount of work to complete before the guests arrive. I went right to work along with a team of amazing volunteers to create the Bollywood inspired Splash pool party. the event featured 3 bars, 2 special performances and approx 350 guests.


The first performance was done a choreographed lady gaga number set to Bollywood inspired beats. I caught a bit of their rehearsal.


The event was a resounding success raising over $30,000 for the charity. I hopped the ferry back to the city to prepare for what was next. . .an evening out. I have to tell you. . .I have never lost my southern roots. . I did think that I have lost my accent though. However, as it was so clearly pointed out at a dinner party, my accent is still very Charleston after a couple of cocktails! I embraced it  and went out southern style to meet some new friends. That is exactly what happened.

one of my favorite watering holes in the city is this little place in Hells Kitchen where celebrities, Broadway stars and everyone else co-habitate into one fun small room. Great wines by the glass, creative cocktails. It's called Hour Glass.  Check it out sometime.

Last night I ran into Andrew Rannells the star of the run away Broadway hit musical Book of Mormon.



  He was hanging out with a couple of friends. Then in walked this 6 foot 7 tall guy. . . .turns out he is in My Big Gay Italian Wedding; Brent Heuser.  Well we got to chatting, and ended up meeting him across town at this cool little piano bar called Uncle CharliesI of course jumped up on the piano played a few songs and called it a very rainy Saturday night.


There is always something fun and creative to do in the city. I welcome all of my new friends that I am meeting along the way and so proud to be able to support such wonderful charities.


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Best always,

L.

Friday, August 5, 2011

Gay Weddings are Chic and Fabulous in the City

It is such an exciting time in New York with the legalization of Gay Marriage. It got me to thinking just how creative we can get and more over what are some the latest trends on what I'm seeing our clients really taking a liking to.  I have to say it's really fabulous for me because we get to really recreate the wheel  to do all kinds of new and exciting things, while remaining as classic and traditional as our clients wish.



We collaborated with the Gay Wedding Institute to offer some of the hottest trends for you to enjoy. I was so pleasantly pleased to see that many of these same trends we have already offered some of our upcoming wedding clients in the city and beyond.


With the idea of celebration, guests are seeing pre-ceremony champagne and signature drinks offered for about a half hour prior to the ceremony. I have even seen full open bars being offered. It first sets that celebratory vibe but also can take the edge off of any guest that is not 100% excited to be attending a gay wedding. One must think of everything!!!


The use of candles have really taken the place of florals for decor. I particularly love this idea. It's one of those ideas that can be as classically elegant chic or even lend itself to a more edgy look.
Clustered candles as centerpieces. Floating candles. Candleabras. A series of pillars clustered.

I adore this look!

minimal florals with these orchids really offer a chic look.

 2 aisles continue to be a huge trend. It is quite a lovely metaphor as well. 2 becoming one. Think about it. This also allows for unique and individualized aisles as well. This also gives the bride and bride and groom and groom their own space. Tres Cool!

Make it a Wedding Weekend! This has been a trend for all of my clients recently. It seems that with more and more destination weddings, people want to come for the entire weekend. Now I know what you're thinking. . rehearsal dinner and brunches. . .oh it's so more involved than that. . think day trips, wine tastings, obstacle courses, group outings baby!

Dresses for the brides are anything but typical. I have even seen little black cocktail dresses being worn. It's simply saying to the guests. . . expect the absolute unexpected.

So no matter your taste or style, things are very exciting in the city and I am so thrilled to be right in the middle of it all offering our signature creative style to any wedding. Remember to keep up with all things entertaining style by checking out my national radio show The Sunday Morning Mimosa. If you can't get it in your city, jump on our website at www.lawsonroberts.com and click the radio show button.

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Wednesday, August 3, 2011

GLAAD Roof Top Event. . A hot time in the city!

Well it's been a week now that I have been feverishly working on the new event division up in New York. I really truly feel that everything that I have been doing up until now is all coming together to make this venture a resounding success. With that being said, I am a huge supporter of a charity called GLAAD which is an acronym for The Gay and Lesbian Alliance against defamation. Their website states:

The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) amplifies the voice of the LGBT community by empowering real people to share their stories, holding the media accountable for the words and images they present, and helping grassroots organizations communicate effectively. By ensuring that the stories of LGBT people are heard through the media, GLAAD promotes understanding, increases acceptance, and advances equality.




Tuesday Night they had their annual Summer fund raiser at 230 5th avenue on the rooftop. It could not have been a more beautiful night. I wrangled myself a cowboy for a date. . well the Cowboy. . being Randy Jones the original cowboy from the Village People.


We arrived and did the red carpet entry where media took pictures and asked a bunch of questions. Randy was happy to report that now that Gay marriage is legal in the city, he is being ordained as a minister and will be more than happy to do any wedding. . I think the caveat is that he has to sing Y-M-C-A at the reception!!! Randy made a wonderful date as expected as he knows everyone and is always so kind to introduce me to all kinds of fabulous people. As we rolled upstairs we were greeted by throngs of people.

they estimate approximately 800 guests were in attendance.

Servers passing Brazilian inspired menu items, cocktails flowing. . and great music all equate to a really fabulous event. As the evening progressed cooler temperatures prevailed and the party was really getting HOT! I ran across Lance Bass who was enjoying himself with friends all for a good cause.
Lawson with musical performer and actor Lance Bass


As an event producer, the devil is always in the details. I stepped back for a moment took a deep breathe and realized that I was in one of the most beautiful cities in the world. Can you imagine having this as our view the other night?
Even the flowers that were the back drop of the bar were both colorful and beautifully lit.


The evening continued on with silent auction items and guests sitting back and enjoying the breeze. I am truly honored to be working in a city such as New York. Now to be able to offer our services for GLBT weddings and be able to add that special creative touch that we are known for continues to excite me.

You never know who you are going to meet at these events. These guys are in television production.


at the end of the event we were invited to a club called La Pomme to enjoy a cocktail. From there I took Randy and company to one of my new favorite watering holes: Hour Glass for a glass of wine. I ran into Broadway performer Brandon Wardell. . who I had known from Charleston. As should every good bar, Beth, the owner keeps a keyboard and an amp upstairs in her office just for these kinds of occasions. We set it up and in typical New York style, I was entertaining on piano while Broadway voices sung to the wee hours of the morning.

I will be offering our entertaining style BLOG once a week from here on out. It will be designed to keep you up to date with all of the fun happenings in our world plus offer insights on the latest trends of events, and entertainment.